Questions Everyone Wants to Know About Sex

 

When it comes to the subject of sex, there are always lots of questions that tend to come up, some more so than others. While this article is definitely directed at men, women can still pick up some insight. Sex is one of those things that usually doesn't get talked about enough, mostly due to all of the social taboos about it. Still, even the Puritans in colonial America were getting their groove on, so why it does not get discussed more, I don't really know.

Let's get right into it and answer some common questions about sex that everyone wants to know:

1. Does a man have to be hung like a horse to please a woman?

Short answer (no pun intended): No. You don't have to worry if you are not packing a king size penis or just an average one, you don't have to be gigantic to please a woman. In fact, you can even be on the small side and still do better than a guy who is hung like a horse. Why?

Well for one, guys that are well endowed tend to rely solely on their size, so they never learn any real technique. I can remember having a discussion with a few women who all had experiences with guys who were very big and they all said the same thing: it hurt! Most guys think of sex with a woman as being them plowing in and out and in and out and if you are too big, that can eventually hurt a woman. Not only that, but plowing in and out like a porno movie is about the most ineffective way to make a woman have an orgasm.

If you really want to please a woman, your size does not matter as much as your technique AND the way you feel. I know, those commercials for size enhancement pills will make you believe otherwise, but remember they want your dough and that's about it. And yes, amongst guys having a big penis may make you feel a little more manly, but chances are... the guys with the bigger penises have women who wish they would actually learn how to make love instead of acting as if they were in a porno flick.

2. Does sex between friends make things get messy?

Most of the time when a man and a woman try and do the friends with benefits thing, it DOES get a little messy. One person will almost always end up having feelings and becoming attached to the other person and then that is when the fun ends and the drama begins. Unless you are willing to risk a friendship for a little bit of sex, most of the time you want to avoid this.

Traditionally, it is usually assumed that the woman will be the one who gets attached, but that is not always the case. Lots of guys have secret crushes on their female friends and when they begin to have sex together, that crush grows into a really deep attraction and next thing he knows it, he's thinking about her all the time and gets jealous if she looks at another guy.

3. Do women think about sex as much as men do?

In my experience, the answer is some do and some don't. There has long been this idea pushed forward, mostly by prudish people that women don't think about sex as much as guys do and that kind of blanket statement is definitely not always true. There are some women who have an insatiable appetite for sex and like it just as much as any guy. Some even get into watching adult films themselves.

Of course, there are some that do not. If you are with a woman who seems like she is not into sex at all, then you may want to dig a little deeper. You have to really get to know the woman you are with and see if she really is not all that into sex or if she is just waiting for the right guy to bring out the wild side in her. Just remember that you can be that guy and no, you don't need an oversized package to make it happen.